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How to cope if someone keeps comparing somebaby to yours >>>

Honesty is the best policy & Don’t let it worry you, all babies are different & special in their own way ..... so chill ....

BIG Q.... knapalah nak compare ... yeeeeee kaler mmg lain2.... ruper xkn la nak photostate any mom or dad.... kalau dh mix camana?...... tgk la greatgrands pulak... adoiiii....bila parents pn lain2 so baby pn lain2 la kan.... bukannyer kita buat pakai tgn (opps pedas sikit ayat nih...ahaks)....

ye betoi, mmg bb ada yg lahir bsr ada yg kecik... tapi bknnyer guaranteed akan develop camtuh jer... ada naik turun dier.... so ada easy baby... n ada yang nakal sikit... adat la kan?.....till this moment n counting, eb suker tgk semua baby.... coz every each of them are very special n unique... as for me, i'll try to give the best to my baby (n of coz let my wish n faith do the rest).... (byk pikir la eb nih kan ... wink)....... but to be frank, i'm a sensitive mother when it comes to my baby... ada aku kesah? (suits u beb).......ahaks... n pls..... kalau dh bb u tuh best sgt @ mantop... pls dont spent ur time asking us anything (n pls save ours 2)... no worries.....u'll be fine honey... chill.....


any hu, there are some comments i favor most : check these out

"My friend started to really get to me by pointing out all the things my baby wasn't doing yet. So much so in fact that I went to see my doctor and she reassured me that development is different for every baby and that they all catch up with each other in the end. She was right of course."

"I think to some degree that it's human nature to compare… survival of the fittest and all that! This is why I cut my friend some slack and approached the situation softly-softly. I just said things like I'm so glad my little one can't keep crawling off yet, or I'm so pleased she's not walking because it means she's still my little baby. She got the hint pretty quickly."

"Let's be honest, we all think our baby is the perfect child. Of course, most of us wouldn't actually say it! My friend likes to blow her own trumpet about her parenting skills and her baby's development. I just let her get on with it because I know I'm doing a great job too and I don't think it's worth falling out over. She's a fabulous friend overall and we're all allowed flaws in our personalities."

so my last word : sayang, kau ttp comel di hatiku... he he he

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  1. ye..setiap baby lain perkembangan nya..my baby lum pandai duduk, lum tumbuh gigi but its normal for her..pelik gak org nak compare2 kan..itu semua kerja Tuhan :) bila baby dah bersedia, dia akan membesar ikut kemampuan dia..

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  2. he he he... mmg pelik..... kalau semua sama macam kembar terlalu seiras la plk... wink... tapi mmg semua bb special.... lmbt atau cepat... diorg akan buat jgk nanti... janji sihat n bijak insyaallah....amin

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